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Takemura the Taurus



Been a long time since I wanted to do this post, but I never found the time. It’s a very long post, but I’m sure you won’t mind it ;)

The hierophant is Goro’s tarot card and is governed by the Taurus. This man is 100% a taurus. I am also one, but here I’m just gonna share info from the net about it, so you can make your own opinion^^

Birthday : April 20 to May 20 Type: Fixed earth sign Male Taurus Positive Traits:

  • Generous

  • Extremely Focused

  • Loyal

  • Patient

  • Determined

  • Kind Heart

  • Prefers Simplicity

  • Stable

  • Goal Driven

  • Good Business People

  • Loves the outdoors

Male Taurus Negative Traits:

  • Materialistic

  • Stubborn Streak

  • Self-Indulgent

  • Laziness

  • Prone to Burnout

  • Overly Protective

  • Opinionated

  • Tagged with being “Dull”

« being a fixed earth sign, he’s typically more introverted, stubborn, and realistic compared to the other signs. »



DETERMINATION


« Taurus signs are extremely determined. Once a Taurus sets his/her mind to doing something, there is nothing in the galaxy that can stop them. They will pursue their identified goal until it is reached – even if this comes at great personal sacrifice (health, relationships, etc). »

« His legendary stubbornness is also a huge problem. Nine times out of ten, he’ll follow you to whatever restaurant or party you picked, but as soon as you ask him to budge a single centimeter outside of his comfort zone, watch out! Honoring his Venusian gentleness, he will resist and refuse with all his might in the most frustratingly passive-aggressive ways possible. He rarely throws a fit, but you’ll end up wishing for that sometimes just to get more directness from him. And when he does get angry, he’ll have a temper that will take more than a minute to subside. »

« Determination, extreme focus and goal attainment are all part of this sign’s personality. A side-effect of this determination however can be stubbornness. As a result, this hyper-focused approach to reaching an identified goal can cause Taurus to engage in conflicts with others. Here, we are talking about co-workers, superiors and loved ones. Taurus will work himself/herself into the ground if left unchecked because they lack the ability to see self-harm. »



FEAR OF CHANGE & PATIENCE


« Taurus signs do not like being told what to do or forced into situations where they feel uncomfortable. »

« Taurus man is generous, tender and devoted, but can sometimes be too stiff and unmovable. If he is aware of his weaknesses, he can turn to sports or any sort of physical activity in order to feel more grounded and ready for action. »

« Taureans take what they say seriously. Your Taurus man will think long and hard before he says those eight letters: “I love you.” Like anything with this sign, having patience is key. »

« His sign’s fixed nature means he lives life slow and steady—you won’t get far with Taurus unless he’s seriously into you and he knows you feel the same toward him. He just needs time to process his emotions, but if you’re patient with him, he’ll show unconditional love and patience in return. Because he wants a relationship with lasting value, it might be months of texting back and forth before he finally asks to be exclusive, but when that commitment is made, he’s fully in it. »

« His tendency to be so unchanging comes from being ruled by Venus, which is all about union and harmony. Taurus’s behavior honors this by never pushing his agenda onto you. This sort of gentle, easygoing personality contributes to why Taurus is so soothing to be around. He hates to disturb the status quo of your relationship, so you never have to worry about any unexpected upsets coming from your Taurus man! »

« It will take time for a Taurus to bond. Do not expect instant results. They move at a much slower speed than other signs when it comes to love and romance. It’s that practicality “chip” that they struggle with. Taurus signs are best attracted by people who are funny but not over the top. If you have an overly gregarious personality, tone it down a bit with this sign. Think calm, relaxed and sensible. »

« Because Taurus is a fixed sign, it is not fond of change. In fact, they prefer things to remain constant. If a Taurus believes that a change in routine is about to happen or something will be altered as part of their regular ritual, they become anxious. In relationships, this can cause Taurus to have an anxious attachment style, which can be overwhelming. The key thing to remember here is that Taurus anxieties are usually triggered by a fear of change or loss. »



LOYALTY & EMOTIONAL SIDE


« Taurus is one of the most loyal signs—he really has your back and reassures you of his affection primarily through actions, not words. »

« He’s not one for surprises, but he more than makes up for it with his thoughtful communication and remarkable reliability. »

« Simply put, Taurus signs make for an excellent friend. This is an astrological zodiac sign that is careful about whom it associates with and is known for taking time before bonding in the platonic sense with another. Once in Taurus’s fold, you will have a super loyal friend that will defend you until the end. Because Taurus is known for living a somewhat lavish lifestyle, they usually invite those who are close to join them in the fun. Not a bad Taurus trait when you think about it. »

« Most of the time, he won’t say a word. If he does, it will definitely be something superficial or opinionated in a way that no true emotion is shown. Although he is clearly emotional, he has real trouble showing it. His sexual desire that follows emotion is something that scares him, for he doesn’t know how to connect these two. It is not easy for him to relax enough to open up and share his emotional and sexual world with you. This can lead to mistrust by his partner, because there is no real clarity on his inner Self. When he does open his heart to someone, he gives away the gift of ultimate trust that should be treasured. This is when you know he will never let you down. »

« He is a complicated man with a strong emotional side that is to be incorporated in a masculine world around him. He can often feel inadequate because of this tenderness he is aware of, and sometimes tries very hard to get rid of his soft side although it is one of his biggest qualities. When he is sad, he will hide his feelings from the rest of the world and maybe even from people closest to him. He needs a lot of tenderness and patience to become someone’s perfect man. »

« While the Taurus man has a stable personality, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a soft spot. This is one sign that is highly sensitive to criticism – both imagined and real. When interacting with a Taurus, be mindful of your body language and tone. Taurus born signs will sometimes mistake something unintentional on the part of others as negative or critical in nature. Part of this has to do with their built in defense mechanisms against getting hurt. That’s just the way the bull is wired. Don’t try to change this in someone you know who is Taurus because it won’t work and could backfire. »

« Taurus men tend to be very practical in their approach to selecting a mate. Because the Taurus male personality employs elements of careful thought and strategy as part of the selection process, it’s not likely he will sweep you off your feet. Remember, one of the key Taurus traits is simplicity and routine. Taurus men will hookup as a function of sexual need or desire but forming a relationship with one is often a game of strategy. Once a Taurus man has attached to you however, you need to know that he won’t go away soon. Loyalty is one of the main traits of Taurus. It’s unlikely he will step out on you during your relationship. Taurus guys are in things for the long haul – meaning love, romance and relationships! »



TRADITIONS


« The Taurus man takes traditions and rules seriously, so don’t be surprised if he refers to how he himself was raised when parenting the kids, although you’ll likely find this super sweet. Taurus men keep chivalry alive and are complete romantics when it comes to anniversaries and birthdays. If old-school love is your thing, you’ll be very happy with a Taurus man. »

« Because the sign of Taurus normally lacks initiative, Taurus men can easily get a panic attack when it is time to conquer the subject of their desire. There is a collision between their traditional values and their gentle nature. Any situation in which they are not sure about their assessment of someone’s emotions is an emotional slippery slope. When they make a decision to make the first move, this will usually be a product of a long analysis of the way the other person was acting, even though they might not even be aware of it. If a Taurus man is secure about the way he feels and understands emotions of his partner, he will be a gentle lover who takes care of his loved one for a very, very long time. »



COMFORT & BEAUTY


« The combo of an earth sign being ruled by the planet of romance and pleasure means he cares less about the ideas of love or beauty and more about tangible sensations and displays of affection. He is ruled by his senses—he’s going to look good, smell nice, speak calmly, and have great taste. Everything about him is pleasant, and there’s a certain softness that Taurus men have about them, thanks to their Venusian sensibilities, that you won’t get from any other sign. »

« If you are lucky enough to be with him for the long run, he is the ultimate family man. Because he loves comfort, he is happiest hanging at home and snuggling up with you on the couch. Did someone say Netflix and chill? He is a protector by nature and will always provide for the family. »

« Taurus men also are huge lovers of mother nature and really get into being in the outdoors. That’s because Taurus is an earth sign and naturally connects with all of the elements present in nature. »

« While they enjoy living a good lifestyle, it doesn’t come at the expense of the things that have to be paid first – like utilities, credit cards and so forth. Again, a major Taurus trait is practicality. »

« Taurus signs like a comfortable, nurturing environment that promotes restoration and security. In short, these are home-bodies that are perfectly content chillaxing on the couch. It is for this reason they are often tagged as being “dull”. While others may view this as a negative trait, Taurus signs find inner-peace and harmony in ritualization. »



ROMANCE


« Perhaps lesser known about the Taurus man is that he can get very jealous—but not in a malicious or manipulative sort of way »

« Because he longs for security and stability, he needs reassurance that he is the only one you really love. If he’s constantly texting “WYD” or peeking at your phone, you may want to have a serious convo. »

Dating Profile : « I like hugs. I like to hold hands. I like to go under the covers. I like to stand very close. I like to cuddle. »

« As an earth sign, Taurus is all about sensuality. Think candles, high-thread-count sheets, and lots of foreplay. »

« practical, and hardworking he is, and his prowess in the bedroom is a major plus! »

« When it comes to the physical side of the relationship, you’re in for a treat. Taurus men are always good with their hands, which is why they are so good at fixing things and creating art. But in the bedroom, this takes on a whole new meaning. Because Taurus is so naturally sensual and slow-paced, you can expect a LOT of foreplay. Sex is always a long process with him, but you’re never left bored or unsatisfied. He can’t help it, he likes things nice and slow, but he’ll make sure you’re feelin’ good the whole damn time. His tendency to be particular and his love for routine means you might have the same go-to moves in bed, but because of his commitment to getting you both off, you don’t mind the predictability of a guaranteed orgasm. »

« He is also not your typical man, even though he might seem like one because of his traditional views. While tender and aware of his partner, he is a passionate, sensual lover, who likes foreplay as much as he likes to be kissed and caressed. He understands the importance of emotions in sex and can be one of the best lovers in the zodiac, but only if he relaxes and puts some energy into the creativity for enrichment of his sexual life. »



OTHER TRAITS


« Life with this type is low-key and laid back—don’t expect much PDA or gushy emotions either. »

« Taurus notices all the little things. His observant personality is charming and will win over the fam in just one Sunday dinner. Although your sis will say it’s weird that he knows a lot of random facts, she is secretly impressed, and you are too. Trust me, that seemingly useless information he has been collecting for years could get you both out of some sticky situations later on. »

« If you want to make it work with a Taurus, you have to KISS: Keep it simple, stupid! He needs things to be orderly and easy to process. If you have a commitment with him, don’t forget about it—he highly prioritizes his schedule, so if you’re a part of it, you better show up. He’s not flexible, but you don’t have to be either. As long as communication is open and you ask him plenty of thoughtful questions, you’ll both be on the same page and most of the speed bumps in your relationship will be avoided. »

« Your Taurus boy toy is incredibly picky and wouldn’t be with you if he didn’t really, really like you, so you can go into the relationship with full confidence. He’s a simple man with simple needs. Taurus will always be there, kissing your neck and opening doors for you. He is grounded and down to earth, and you’ll feel safe in his arms. Even though he might not be the most spontaneous and he’s not going to be an eager participant in every activity you plan, his sensuality and love for you will remain consistent as the years go by. »


Sources :

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a25577775/taurus-man-personality-traits/ https://www.astrology-zodiac-signs.com/man/taurus/ https://guycounseling.com/taurus-traits-and-personality-revealed/



 


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